This essay is difficult to write. It is easier for me to
take the world – the unbeliever – to task than to criticize my brethren.
Besides, I want to lay bare a sin that is endemic to the church in the West – a
sin that has taken control of nearly all of us. It is a sin that is so common
and deeply entrenched that whoever reads this will want to attack me instead of
engaging in any self-examination.
God had warned Israel against entanglements with
the surrounding world:
- Make
no treaty with them [the Canaanites], and show them no mercy. Do not
intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take
their daughters for your sons, for they will turn your sons away from
following me to serve other gods, and the Lord's anger will burn against
you and will quickly destroy you (Deut.
7:2-4).
Anything
that turns us away from following our God is of the greatest import. Israel’s
entire welfare depended upon abiding in His Word. Consequently, their Redeemer
trained them to keep His Word foremost:
- He humbled you, causing
you to hunger and then feeding you with manna, which neither you nor your
fathers had known, to teach you that man does not live on bread alone but
on every word that comes from the mouth of the Lord (Deut. 8:2-3).
Israel’s neighbors would continue to seduce Israel away
from abiding in God’s every Word. How? We are naturally social creatures,
easily influenced by our friends and neighbors. We want to be liked and
accepted and don’t want to antagonize anyone with our scandalous doctrines and
judgments. We idolatrously equate our value with popularity, professional
respectability and social recognition. However, as Jesus explained, the
antagonism between the children of this world and the children born from above
is inevitable:
- "If the world hates
you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it
would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I
have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.
Remember the words I spoke to you: 'No servant is greater than his
master.' If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they
obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also.” (John 15:18-20; 16:1-2; 7:7)
We wrongly and naively suppose that if we can
just be loving enough and partake in the same things as our neighbors, we will
be loved and accepted. If we act like them, they will want to be like us. If we
love the things that they love, they will love the things we love. We hide our
light and restrain our saltiness and become fit for nothing but to be trodden
down by men (Mat. 5:13).
However, the Bible gives no encouragement for
becoming a friend to the world. Nor can we retain friendship with our Savior if
we pursue friendship with the world:
- You adulterous people,
don't you know that friendship with the world is hatred toward God? Anyone
who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. Or do you
think Scripture says without reason that the spirit he caused to live in
us envies intensely? (James 4:4-5;
1 John 2:15)
When we allow the world to influence us, we
become compromisers and adulterers! Well, what marriage vows do we violate? Our
marriage to the Lord! When we are drawn away from a strict adherence to God’s
Word, we cause Him to “envy intensely.” Why? He loves us intensely and wants to
see nothing infringe upon His love for us!
How do we become a friend to the world? When
we become inextricably entangled with the world:
- Do not be yoked together
with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common?
Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?...What does a believer
have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the
temple of the living God. As God has said: "I will live with them and
walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people" (2 Cor. 6:14-17).
Blessing requires us to remove ourselves from
those things that will contaminate us. Therefore, we cannot become dependent
upon the world. We cannot form any relationship with unbelievers from which we
cannot easily unyoke ourselves.
Today, this teaching has become distasteful
to believer and unbeliever alike. We think it arrogant, judgmental and
chauvinistic to believe that there should be such a sharp distinction between
the two groups. An entire body of the church has simply rejected this teaching.
It’s just too divisive. It separates us from our colleagues, friends and
family. It isolates us from the rest of humanity.
Brian McLaren, a key writer of the Emergent Church, charges that:
- Christians have been
taught to see in "us vs. them" terms for centuries, and it will
take time to reorient faithful people in a new direction -- "us with
them," working for the common good (Huffington Post Religion Blog, 2/19/03).
In
support of his indictment, McLaren cites two like-minded students:
- “People don't want to have
to side with the church and against their friends who are Buddhist or
Muslim or Jewish or agnostic."
- “We can't find a church that
doesn't load a bunch of extra baggage on us. We tried, but they all had
this long list of people we had to be against. It's just not worth it.”
Of
course, these indictments are misrepresentations. We are not “against” the
world; it’s just that we cannot allow ourselves to be so closely associated with
the world. To quote the old saying, “We can be in the world but not of
it.” We can even have non-Christian
friends as long as we know clearly what our boundaries are.
Scripture
is clear that there is a radical distinction between the two. We should love
our neighbor, but we cannot get entangled in such a way that it compromises any
aspect of our heavenly marriage. And we are married to Him:
- If you belonged to the
world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the
world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates
you. (John 15:19)
- They [Jesus’ children] are
not of the world, even as I am not of it. (John 17:16)
Consequently,
we are warned about the dangers of associating with the world:
- Do not be misled:
"Bad company corrupts good character." (1 Cor. 15:33-34; 5:9)
While
the church sends out missionaries into the world, many of us are unprepared for
such up-close involvement. Knowing this full well, John warns a certain
woman:
- Anyone who runs ahead and
does not continue in the teaching of Christ does not have God; whoever
continues in the teaching has both the Father and the Son. If anyone comes
to you and does not bring this teaching, do not take him into your house
or welcome him. Anyone who welcomes him shares in his wicked work (2 John 1:9-11)
While
it is true that our Lord will keep those who are His, we mustn’t put Him to the
test by attempting to navigate interpersonal waters that are too deep for us.
If we truly trust Him, we will obey these warnings.
Some
will say, “Well, I just trust Jesus with my involvement in secular society.”
However, according to John, trusting Jesus is also a matter of avoiding
negative influences if we are unprepared. Sometimes, in our arrogance, we think
that we are prepared when we are not. And we are not prepared. We haven’t
meditated deeply and regularly on His Word (Psalm 1). We allow ourselves to
compromise Scripture in order to accommodate our new relationships or careers.
Christian
professionals with advanced degrees have done this. Theistic evolutionists have
adopted an entirely unbiblical distinction to enable them to have both Darwin and Jesus. They divide the
world into the physical and the spiritual, foolishly claiming that evolution is
only concerned about the physical, while the Bible is only concerned about the
spiritual. With this distinction, they hope to silence any contradiction
between Darwin and Jesus.
However,
they kill their faith in the process. The physical can no more be separated
from the spiritual than the theology of the cross (spiritual) can be separated
from the death of Jesus on the cross (physical). The physical and the spiritual
are inseparable! To separate them is to lobotomize the mind from heart. Thus
they shipwreck their faith.
When
we marry ourselves to the surrounding culture, we violate our ultimate marriage.
This takes many forms - material, sexual, and spiritual. We have become
consumers, just like our neighbors. We encourage each other to spend lavishly
on ourselves, ignoring the fact that many thousands of Christians are being
made refugees and even martyrs at alarming rates. However, John warns:
- If anyone has material
possessions and sees his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can
the love of God be in him? (1 John
3:17)
We
tolerate multiple forms of sin, claiming, “I can’t judge others,” conveniently
forgetting that we are our brothers’ keepers. When a brother or sister sins, if
we care about them and their eternal welfare, we will speak the truth in love. We will not be silent or look the other way. Evangelical
leader Albert Mohler described the church’s permissiveness this way:
- “Evangelicals allowed
culture to trump Scripture…the church largely followed the lead of its
members and accepted what might be called the ‘privatization’ of divorce.’
Churches simply allowed a secular culture to determine that divorce is no
big deal, and that it is a purely private matter.”
Pastors
are often so afraid of losing members that they don’t feed the flock with
nourishing food. Instead, Scripturally
weak teachings and ideas abound. Tolerance
has become the supreme virtue. However, the Spirit warned the churches against
this:
- Nevertheless, I have this
against you: You tolerate that woman Jezebel, who calls herself a
prophetess. By her teaching she misleads my servants into sexual
immorality and the eating of food sacrificed to idols (Rev. 2:20, 14).
What’s
the answer? The Church
of Sardis had achieved “a
reputation” by the standards of this world. However, the Spirit warned:
- Wake up! Strengthen what
remains and is about to die, for I have not found your deeds complete in
the sight of my God. Remember, therefore, what you have received and
heard; obey it, and repent. But if you do not wake up, I will come like a
thief, and you will not know at what time I will come to you (Rev. 3:2-3).
The
Spirit instructs us to “remember,” “obey” and “repent” from our compromises and
worldly standards. Our Savior alone
must be exalted above everything else:
- But seek first his kingdom
and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. (Matthew 6:33)
His
Word alone must predominate, and when it does, He will take care of us far
better than we can.
(Evidence of the depth of our compromise with the world: http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/authors-on-the-line/porn-pride-and-praise-an-interview-with-heath-lambert-22-minutes)