Jesus’ ministry was about compassion (Mat. 9:36; 14:4;
20:34; Mark 8:2; Luke 7:13) and love (John 15:9; 11:5; 13:1; 19:26; Rom. 8:35;
5:8; Mark 10:21; 1 John 3:16).
His disciples knew that Jesus loved them. In his Gospel, John
was very explicit about knowing Jesus’ love for him (John 19:26; 20:2; 21:7,
20). However, it is likely that they all
knew that Jesus loved them. He eventually made it very plain to them by laying
down His life.
However, the Gospel accounts lack any verse where Jesus encouraged His disciples. He never told them
that they were growing or doing a good job. Instead, Jesus was very critical of
them. For example, He corrected Philip right before He would be taken from them:
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“Don’t you know me, Philip, even after I have
been among you such a long time? Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father.
How can you say, ‘Show us the Father’? Don’t you believe that I am in the Father, and
that the Father is in me?” (John 14:9-10)
Despite His critical talk, they knew that Jesus loved them.
I think that this points to a fundamental difference in how we measure and
understand love as opposed to the 1st century understanding. Today,
we measure love in terms of how highly the other regards me – the kind things
they say about me, their lack of criticism of me, and their agreement with my
lifestyle choices. In other words, we measure love in terms of affirmation. If
you affirm me, you love me. If you don’t, then you hate me.
Perhaps there is something wrong with the way we measure
love. Instead, the Bible measures love by our willingness to sacrifice
ourselves for the ultimate welfare of another. Jesus defined love this way:
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My command is this: Love each other as I have
loved you. Greater love has no one than
this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. (John 15:12-13)
And Jesus modeled this love by dying for us. How then do we
love our neighbor? Not necessarily with agreeable and encouraging words – words
of affirmation! Jesus often spoke painful words to people, but this was because
they needed to hear them (Mark
10:21).
We too must love enough to go beyond stroking egos and
affirming our friends so that will like and appreciate us. If we love, we will
confront as Jesus confronted. We will pursue the ultimate welfare of the other,
even if they might hate us for this.
Jesus informed the Pharisees that if they didn’t believe in
Him, they would die in their sins (John 8:24). Those words might have seemed
harsh, but they were words of love, spoken to undermine false hopes in favor
of the One true hope!
We too must expose false hopes to show the way to the One
true hope. One friend related to me her regrets. She had many homosexual friends
and would even party with them at the gay bars and clubs, never once warning
them about their false hope. She now laments that she had come to understand
love too late for them.
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