
If I believe that my wife is having an affair
with our next-door neighbor, this will
profoundly transform my life in every way. Likewise, what we believe about
ourselves and God will severely alter our lives. The great King Nebuchadnezzar
discovered this in a very dramatic way. He had built perhaps the greatest
empire in the world at that time and Babylon, one of the marvels of the world.
However, he had a disturbing dream whose message would transform his life. He
therefore called for the Hebrew prophet Daniel to interpret his ominous dream:
Daniel
4:24–26 “It is a decree of the Most
High, which has come upon my lord the king, that you shall be driven from among
men, and your dwelling shall be with the beasts of the field. You shall be made
to eat grass like an ox, and you shall be wet with the dew of heaven,
and seven periods of time shall pass over you, till you know that the Most
High rules the kingdom of men and gives it to whom he will. And as it was
commanded to leave the stump of the roots of the tree, your kingdom shall be
confirmed (returned) to you from the
time that you know that Heaven rules.”
The king would go mad and
believe himself to be an ox seeking pasture. This “psychosis” would prevail for
seven years until he would learn a rare truth but needful truth about himself
and God: that God ruled and not the king:
Daniel
4:29–32 At the end of twelve months
he was walking on the roof of the royal palace of Babylon, and the king
answered and said, “Is not this great Babylon, which I have built by my
mighty power as a royal residence and for the glory of my majesty?”
While the words were still in the king’s mouth, there fell a voice from heaven,
“O King Nebuchadnezzar, to you it is spoken: The kingdom has departed from you,
and you shall be driven from among men, and your dwelling shall be with the
beasts of the field. And you shall be made to eat grass like an ox.
At the end of the seven
years, God restored his mind and had profoundly changed his beliefs.
(Interestingly, these events coincide with an archeological finding that this
king had disappeared from his thrown for seven years.) What follows are the
unlikely words of the king explaining his transformation, Scripture making room
for a pagan’s testimony:
Daniel
4:34–36 “At the end of the days I,
Nebuchadnezzar, lifted my eyes to heaven, and my reason returned to me, and I
blessed the Most High, and praised and honored
him who lives forever, for his dominion is an everlasting dominion, and his
kingdom endures from generation to generation; all the inhabitants of the earth
are accounted as nothing, and he does according to his will among
the host of heaven and among the inhabitants of the earth; and none can
stay his hand or say to him, “What have you done?” At the same time my reason
returned to me, and for the glory of my kingdom, my majesty and splendor
returned to me…for all his works
are right and his ways are just; and those who walk in pride he
is able to humble.
The king had come to
the very beliefs that God required. God is all-powerful. His kingship would prevail,
as the Apostle Paul had preached on Mars Hill:
Acts 17:26–27 “And
[God] made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the
earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling
place, that they should seek God, and perhaps feel their way toward him and
find him. Yet he is actually not far from each one of us.”
Paul even explained
his own life and even nations in terms of the mercy of God:
1
Corinthians 15:10 But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his
grace toward me was not in vain. On the contrary, I worked harder than any of them, though it
was not I, but the grace of God that is with me.
2 Corinthians 3:5–6
Not that we are sufficient in ourselves to claim anything as coming from us,
but our sufficiency is from God, who has made us sufficient to be ministers of
a new covenant.
Isaiah
40:17, 22-23 All the nations are as nothing before him, they
are accounted by him as less than nothing and emptiness…It is he who
sits above the circle of the earth, and its inhabitants are like grasshoppers;
who stretches out the heavens like a curtain, and spreads them like a tent to
dwell in; who brings princes to nothing, and makes the rulers of the
earth as emptiness.
Galatians
6:3 For if anyone thinks he is
something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself.
According also to Jesus, self-confidence is self-deception?
John 15:5 “I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in
him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.”
What are the consequences of pride,
the belief that we are morally superior?
Luke 18:9–14 He also
told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous,
and treated others with contempt: “Two men went up into the temple to
pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee, standing by
himself, prayed thus: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other men,
extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. I fast
twice a week; I give tithes of all that I get.’ But the tax collector,
standing far off, would not even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his
breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, a sinner!’ I tell you, this man
went down to his house justified, rather than the other. For everyone
who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles
himself will be exalted.”
Pride and narcissism
are destructive of all relationships. It’s an addiction that needs constant
feeding. It takes many forms like always having to be right:
Proverbs 16:2 All
the ways of a man are pure in his own eyes, but the LORD weighs the spirit.
How do we humble
ourselves? We cannot! Our addiction to self-glorification is so powerful that
only Jesus can undermine this malignant kingdom, and this requires healthy
amounts of suffering:
2
Corinthians 4:8–11 We are afflicted
in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted,
but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying
in the body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be
manifested in our bodies. For we who live are always being given over
to death for Jesus’ sake, so that the life of Jesus also may be
manifested in our mortal flesh.
The king had to first be
humbled and so must we. Lest the Apostle Paul become proud because of the
wisdom he had been given, God allowed Satan to afflict him and even refused to
heal Paul:
2
Corinthians 12:9–10 But he said to
me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so
that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am
content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For
when I am weak, then I am strong.
This narcissistic addiction can return at any time if God
stops pruning us back, but I trust that, by His mercy, we will abide.