VERSES ON THE NEED FOR REPENTANCE

 

 

 

 

A CONSTANT REALITY: Romans 7:24–25 Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I myself serve the law of God with my mind, but with my flesh I serve the law of sin.

 

For salvation

 

2 Corinthians 7:10 For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death.

 

Luke 24:46–47  and said to them, “Thus it is written, that the Christ should suffer and on the third day rise from the dead, and that repentance for the forgiveness of sins should be proclaimed in his name to all nations, beginning from Jerusalem.

 

Acts 2:38 And Peter said to them, “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.

 

For Life

 

Luke 13:2–5 And he answered them, “Do you think that these Galileans were worse sinners than all the other Galileans, because they suffered in this way? No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish. Or those eighteen on whom the tower in Siloam fell and killed them: do you think that they were worse offenders than all the others who lived in Jerusalem? No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish.”

 

Matthew 10:37–39 Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. And whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.

 

2 Chronicles 7:14–15 “if my people who are called by my name humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land. Now my eyes will be open and my ears attentive to the prayer that is made in this place.”

 

Ezekiel 18:21–23 “But if a wicked person turns away from all his sins that he has committed and keeps all my statutes and does what is just and right, he shall surely live; he shall not die. None of the transgressions that he has committed shall be remembered against him; for the righteousness that he has done he shall live. Have I any pleasure in the death of the wicked, declares the Lord GOD, and not rather that he should turn from his way and live?

 

2 Timothy 2:24–26 And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will.

 

Acts 5:1–4 But a man named Ananias, with his wife Sapphira, sold a piece of property, and with his wife’s knowledge he kept back for himself some of the proceeds and brought only a part of it and laid it at the apostles’ feet. But Peter said, “Ananias, why has Satan filled your heart to lie to the Holy Spirit and to keep back for yourself part of the proceeds of the land? While it remained unsold, did it not remain your own? And after it was sold, was it not at your disposal? Why is it that you have contrived this deed in your heart? You have not lied to man but to God.”

 

YET, WE ARE SAFE: Jeremiah 3:12–14 “Return, faithless Israel, declares the LORD. I will not look on you in anger, for I am merciful, declares the LORD; I will not be angry forever. Only acknowledge your guilt, that you rebelled against the LORD your God and scattered your favors among foreigners under every green tree, and that you have not obeyed my voice, declares the LORD. Return, O faithless children, declares the LORD; for I am your master; I will take you, one from a city and two from a family, and I will bring you to Zion.”

 

Deuteronomy 30:1–3 “And when all these things come upon you, the blessing and the curse, which I have set before you, and you call them to mind among all the nations where the LORD your God has driven you, and return to the LORD your God, you and your children, and obey his voice in all that I command you today, with all your heart and with all your soul, then the LORD your God will restore your fortunes and have mercy on you, and he will gather you again from all the peoples where the LORD your God has scattered you.”

MOURNING AND ACCEPTING OUR MORAL FAILURES

 

 

Growth requires scrupulous self-examination. In The Good Life: Seeking Purpose, Meaning, and Truth in your Life, Charles Colson, a Nixon hit-man, had written that the way up is the way down by taking full responsibility for our lives and the wrongs we have committed. He wrote:

 

·       If we can’t accept our own failure and sin, then we can never escape it. Paradoxically, we can find the good life only when we understand we aren’t good. Denial of evil always produces tragedy, in our own lives and in the community at large. We have to understand the evil in ourselves before we can truly embrace the good in life. (33)

 

It is painful to encounter our evil. It makes us feel unworthy, vulnerable, and even condemned. However, once we learn how to accept ourselves, we can begin to accept others, but we face many obstacles. One set of obstacles is our beliefs, which often keep us in denial. Colson had written revealingly about his experiences in the center of the White House:

 

·       One of the little-remarked-on phenomena of the Nixon White House, which I believe had a great deal to do with the Watergate scandal, is that many of Nixon’s top advisers were Christian Scientists. The president’s chief of staff, Bob Haldeman, and domestic advisor, John Ehrlichman, among them…I have known people who live very decent, upright lives as Christian Scientists [CS]. Still, there’s one big flaw in their belief system—that evil is an illusion, that there is no sin or evil, that evil simply isn’t real unless we allow it to invade our minds. (32)

 

To exemplify the problem, Colson cites one of the CS Watergate burglars:

 

·       Egil Krogh, after explaining the laws he broke and the crimes of which he was found guilty, said: “But the truth is, I was never really guilty. The human experience indicated that I went through this life experience: working for Nixon, going through all that stuff…But the fundamental idea was that my innocence had never, ever been touched. To explain it clearly, honestly, and do the best I can within the human context, my innocence became clearer as I went through it. By understanding my innocence, I was able to take the steps necessary to take responsibility for my actions…My spiritual nature never changed.”

 

Colson understood this as a classic case of denial, a source of tragedy. However, it might be the hardest thing in the world to confront our evil. We tend to repress it and make excuses for it, mainly by blaming others for our failures and disappointments. However, this creates conflict. I’m not only talking about conflict with others but also conflict within ourselves. This is because we know the truth about ourselves, our guilt and shame, but have condemned ourselves to an endless struggle to suppress and excuse them.

 

However, this confrontation with our dark-side and evil deeds is the road to freedom. To judge others without first judging ourselves is both spiritual blindness and hypocrisy:

 

·       “Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log [blindness] in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.” (Matthew 7:3–5)

 

 

Jesus taught, contrary to the “wisdom” of our day, that scrupulous self-examination must precede judging others, no matter how painfully humbling this can be:

 

·       “Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.” (Matthew 23:12)

The persistent need to exalt and to prove ourselves morally worthy is bondage. Instead, to humble ourselves to the painful truth is to be free of it:

 

·       “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied. Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” (Matthew 5:3-8)

 

But how can we believe ourselves to be pure in heart as we continue to perceive the reality of our dark-side? It is only because there is complete forgiveness and cleansing in Jesus (1 John 1:9-10):

·       “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28–30)

 

I was never able to confront my own evil. Instead, I had learned from my psychologists to believe in myself through positive affirmations. This meant that I had to accentuate my positives and to repress my negatives or to blame my parents and society for them. However, this just intensified my inner struggle and denied me of any possibility of integration and self-acceptance.

It was only as I became convinced that Jesus loved, forgave, and accepted me that I could begin to accept myself with all of my warts. Before this, I could not feel at all comfortable around my dad, feeling that he didn’t accept me.

 

However, as I began to accept myself, I no longer required my dad to accept me. Instead, I also began to accept him, his failings, and to appreciate him in spite of these.