Much of our Western world denies that sin really exists. One
respondent stated:
·
I am convinced that sin does not exist; nor am I
tainted with it. Sin is the fearful creation of medieval minds.
I responded:
·
To deny the reality of sin is also to deny the
objective reality of guilt and shame. It is like denying that your kitchen is
on fire or that you have operable cancer. Such denial might be comforting in
the short run, but in the long run, there is a great price to be paid.
Is sin really so tangible. Well, let’s look at one of its common
manifestations – the wake produced by guilt. Guilt is so powerful that it has
taken us captive. Consequently, humanity can be characterized by our attempt to
rationalize away this very disturbing and shaming feeling and has resorted to
many techniques to overcome these life-controlling feelings. Here are a few of
the ways:
1.
We deny the existence of Sin.
2.
We harden our conscience and insist that morality
is relative, just something we create.
3.
We might even deny that we have freewill to
convince ourselves that we aren’t culpable.
4.
We give ourselves positive affirmations, even
when they contradict the reality of our lives.
5.
We distract, drug, and busy ourselves to avoid
sin’s voice.
6.
We go to a psychologist to teach us to love
ourselves.
7.
We feverishly seek out accomplishments, power,
prestige, and money so that we can tell our guilt/shame feelings that they are
lying.
8.
We wear fronts to disguise who we really are.
All of these maneuvers represent a flight from the self,
making it impossible to really know ourselves, despite all of our mindfulness
meditations. They also testify that we do believe in sin, at least on a subliminal
level.
Although these solutions might cover or repress our guilt
and shame, they are unable to get at its root – that we are indeed guilty.
However, when we treat sin as if it really exists, we can do
something about it. Similarly, when we are willing to acknowledge that our
house is on fire, we can take remedial action, if only to call for help.
But what action is necessary to address sin? Well, for
starters, we have to admit our wrong, especially to the one we have offended,
and to apologize!
Here, however, we run into a predicament. For one thing, we
have been denying the reality of sin so long that it is also impossible to face
it. It is too damaging to our self-image. How? We have to appear right and virtuous.
It’s too painful to appear otherwise.
Besides, if you do not believe in sin, then you do not
believe you have anything to apologize for. Okay, you say that you have to
apologize to repair a relationship, but if you do not believe you have done
anything wrong, you are acting hypocritically if you apologize. Besides,
eventually you will be found out.
To deny sin is to deny a critical aspect of our lives and to
run from what our conscience wants to tell us. And if we will not listen to
ourselves, we will not listen to others either. Ironically, by denying sin, we
live as its captives.
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