Why do most people speak highly of their psychotherapist and
their healing process? In an article entitled “Freud is a Fraud,” Chris Noble,
MD, had written:
• Speculation was and is at the heart of psychoanalytic theory and practice.
However, unlike scientific speculation, which leads to testable hypotheses and
controlled experiments, psychoanalysis was developed mainly by unscientific, if
not anti-scientific, minds. One searches in vain among the analysts for any
semblance of the typical concerns and attitudes of scientists. There is no
concern for testing their claims, which are put forth dogmatically rather than
tentatively. Skepticism about their work is rare; bravado and bold assertions are
common.
Psychotherapists now widely accept the many findings that the relief that their
clients derive is not the result of their theoretical approach or even of their
particular practices, but of the empathetic relationship they form with their
clients.
Some practices are even widely regarded as arrogant:
• Freud's theories and practice can be attacked not only for his ideas and
methods, but for his arrogance and contempt for his patients and colleagues.
(Noble)
Freud had even stated:
• "I can't help being convinced that my dear fellow men, with few
exceptions, are worthless." http://somniloquy.online.fr/TSI3/freud.html
The real Freud wasn’t the one that his patients had been seeing. In the midst
of the Vietnam War, I had asked my psychiatrist to write a letter claiming that
I was unfit for military service. He gave a copy to me. I was glad to read that
the letter made an excellent case for my psychological unfitness. During our
next meeting, I thanked him for his convincing letter. He answered, “I meant
every word of it.”
The curtain had been pulled back, and I was devastated to find what he really
thought about me. He saw me as Freud had seen his clients - as “worthless.”
I too saw myself as worthless - as irreparably damaged merchandise, despite his
positive affirmations of me during our counseling sessions.
Years later, after I had a life changing encounter with Jesus, I returned to
college and obtained a degree in social work and did my fieldwork in a
community mental health center. I would sit in as the psychotherapists would
share their cases and receive feedback.
The mask was put aside, and they discussed what they really felt towards their
clients. I was surprised by the contrast between what I was seeing in these
meetings and the face they wore with their clients.
I wondered if this would happen me once I became a Christian psychotherapist.
In retrospect, I found that our Lord painfully humbles us so that we would accept
our unworthiness in the face of His love and acceptance for us:
• Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies
and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be
able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we
ourselves are comforted by God. (II Corinthians 1:3-4 NKJV)
Years later, I have found these verses true. I has now became unthinkable for
me to regard anyone as worthless or even beneath me. It is because of God’s
love and acceptance of me that I can now love and accept other broken people -
no mask needed!
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